Many times in our life we come across to this feeling “ATTACHMENT” but due to lack of awareness we fail to understand the intensity of it.
Attachment isn’t really doing any kind of good to us, because it get us involved in Karm Bandhan. Attachments indirectly gets us connected with our love or known ones , Eg: Our kids, Family,Friend foes, acquaintance, colleagues etc and their related things knowingly or unknowingly. Because of Attachment we take everything as personal thing. When things become personal we are bound to bear its results. This is applicable to every kind of activity we do.
When there is any kind of discussion or conversation or dialogue occurs with any of our dear ones or known ones , we happened to share our views to them. Most of the times due to lack of awareness we end up expecting them to respect or accept our views which doesn’t really happens . Because we are two different souls, where none of us is awaken and we end up feeling disappointed and angry, which indirectly drains our positive energy. This happens because when one is not agreeing to our points we become more intense and focus to explain our point. Our focus and intensity diverts all the energy to our words. Disappointment comes because of the Ego part in Attachment , that the person next to you must understand about the right thing which YOU ARE SAYING. From this point conversation becomes a tool through which our energy gets drained and brings NO Result. After these kind of discussion or dialogue we feel restless and exhausted.
Now in the other hand let’s assume that you are in the similar situation and even aware of it that the other person isn’t really receptive enough for your advice but still you share your point of view without any kind of expectation. Does this creates any kind of energy loss? YES, it does. Apparently you get connected to your dear one’s energy because of love or want to explain something. By this way you indirectly end up exchanging your positive energy with their restless or current feeling and after sometime you start experiencing the similar feeling but in the other hand your dear ones suddenly starts understanding the situation minute later because of receiving your positive energy, leaving you exhausted.
This clears one thing that trade of energy is possible but in this process you loose your positive energy and gain others negative or restless energies which may not be good for your sadhana, so it is important to avoid unnecessary discussion for a sadhak so that he/she doesn’t waste their energy on such issues.
What is the way to STOP energy exchange during discussion? Answer is the DETACHMENT. During conversation one should not do it because of love, anger, greed , attachment or ego. Suggestions or exchange of views when done without these ailments bring better , impactful and long lasting results. But this demands PRACTICE with AWARENESS under Guru’s Guidance.
By : KHUSHI
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